Dear Bunda,
This last several days with you are the greatest day of my life ever. Even when sometime on those days we didn't do anything. Just lying, cudling, ticling always an enjoyable moment.
In this second years of our marriage I am still wonder where we will heading. There are some plans. But the end result is still mysterious. I just wanna be have beautiful life with you. With some adventures, learning many new things, trying something we haven't known, visiting new place, learn new language, etc. I will make sure that this 3 months forward will be an awesome time for you. I will be your guard so you will be finishing your school assignment with focus ;). I will be the partner for our culinary hunting. I will be a travel mate for our travel adventures. I will be a sparing discussion partner for any of our talk, from light topic to heavy topic. I always want to make sure that you will be happy when you are with me.
PS: I love you
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Dear wifey - Grow Old with You
Dear Bunda,
I want to say that time seems move fast. Yes it is when you are with me. But when we are not together actually it feels slow. But thankfuly, the time has come. We will meet again in couple of hours.
Sometime I think life is hard. There will be some test and difficulties along the way. The another benefit of marriage is we are not alone when fighting in this life. There will be someone that will hear our talk. Even there is a song that said there will be a shoulder to cry on.
Difficulties in life are varies. From the simplest to the most complex. From money matter to abstract matter that cannot be understood easily. Whatever they are, the test is a process to grow ourself. To be better and to be stronger.
Life is still so long in front of us. Insya Allah. As the time flow and we are getting older there gonna be some changes and new thing and experience that we can see. More wise hopefully, more humble, more settle, more wealth and more grateful. There will be a day when our home will be filled by small children that will always follow whereever you go. Those children will be grow up seems with no time. I always considering so much about proper holistic education for children. Not only formal education but teach them to have a good character and honest. They also have to critice, asking so much, love reading, love learning and full of confidence but still humble. I just want to pour what the things that defficient and my life. I've never felt have proper love from my dad and not proper communication from my mom. I really want those experience will be not repeating for my descendant. I wanna grow old with you.
Can't wait to see again in this very close time. Thank you so much for always be so patient to me. I want to be whereever we live I can make our house like a heaven for you. I always want to treat you properly and with full of love.
PS: I love you
I want to say that time seems move fast. Yes it is when you are with me. But when we are not together actually it feels slow. But thankfuly, the time has come. We will meet again in couple of hours.
Sometime I think life is hard. There will be some test and difficulties along the way. The another benefit of marriage is we are not alone when fighting in this life. There will be someone that will hear our talk. Even there is a song that said there will be a shoulder to cry on.
Difficulties in life are varies. From the simplest to the most complex. From money matter to abstract matter that cannot be understood easily. Whatever they are, the test is a process to grow ourself. To be better and to be stronger.
Life is still so long in front of us. Insya Allah. As the time flow and we are getting older there gonna be some changes and new thing and experience that we can see. More wise hopefully, more humble, more settle, more wealth and more grateful. There will be a day when our home will be filled by small children that will always follow whereever you go. Those children will be grow up seems with no time. I always considering so much about proper holistic education for children. Not only formal education but teach them to have a good character and honest. They also have to critice, asking so much, love reading, love learning and full of confidence but still humble. I just want to pour what the things that defficient and my life. I've never felt have proper love from my dad and not proper communication from my mom. I really want those experience will be not repeating for my descendant. I wanna grow old with you.
Can't wait to see again in this very close time. Thank you so much for always be so patient to me. I want to be whereever we live I can make our house like a heaven for you. I always want to treat you properly and with full of love.
PS: I love you
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Dear wifey - Memori
Dear Bunda,
Rata-rata memori manusia mulai berfungsi pada usia sekitar 5 tahun. Barulah pada usia ini kita bisa mengingat fragmen-fragmen pengalaman. Jarang ada orang yang bisa mengingat memori lebih muda dari 5 tahun.
Fragmen pertama yang paling bisa aku ingat hingga saat ini adalah memori saat aku di Cipanas. Usiaku kira-kira 5 tahun. Saat itu aku sedang bermain pasir di belakang kontrakan. Kemudian bapak menjemput untuk pulang ke rumah. Meski pada usia itu aku banyak memiliki foto namun hampir tak ada momen yang aku ingat di memori. Mungkin sekali lagi karena aku masih terlalu kecil.
Sepotong memori juga masih teringat saat menyeberang selat sunda di atas feri menuju ke sumatera. Memori lain dapat aku lacak saat sudah di Padang, sekolah di salah SD di sana. Yang paling berkesan adalah pernah pulang jalan kaki saat hujan karena semua angkot penuh. Memori lain yang berkesan adalah saat rumah kontrakan kami di Padang kebanjiran saat laut pasang. Aku juga ingat pernah sholat jumat berdua bapak ke mesjid di dekat rumah. Aku juga ingat pernah jatuh dari pagar rumah dan kepala bocor.
Memori lain adalah ketika pulang lagi ke Jonggol dan kami tinggal di gubuk di belakang rumah sekarang. Vici lahir, aku masuk ke SD Jonggol 1 selama satu minggu hingga akhirnya pindah ke Jakarta saat kelas 2 SD. Di kelas 2 SD inilah semua memori mulai cukup jelas teringat. Tentunya tidak sampai yang sedetail-detailnya. Beberapa yang teringat misalnya saat aku senang menangkap ikan sapu-sapu saat banjir. Pulang dari latihan karate dengan berlari kencang karena melewati kawasan kompleks yang sepi saat malam. Memori agustusan lomba membawa kelereng. Ingatan main perosotan di taman bermain dekat rumah jakarta. Ingatan pertama kali kemping ke cibubur sebelum kelas 4 SD. Naik truk terbuka. Sesampai tujuan peserta kemping SD Barunawati 1 heboh karena salah seorang siswa meminum minyak tanah dari jerigen yang disangkanya air. Dan banyak hal lain yang mulai aku ingat dengan cukup jelas.
Bagaimana dengan bunda? Kapankah kamu mulai mengingat? Semoga aku selalu akan bisa mengingatmu di hati dan saling menjaga selama ruh masih di dalam raga.
PS: I love you
Rata-rata memori manusia mulai berfungsi pada usia sekitar 5 tahun. Barulah pada usia ini kita bisa mengingat fragmen-fragmen pengalaman. Jarang ada orang yang bisa mengingat memori lebih muda dari 5 tahun.
Fragmen pertama yang paling bisa aku ingat hingga saat ini adalah memori saat aku di Cipanas. Usiaku kira-kira 5 tahun. Saat itu aku sedang bermain pasir di belakang kontrakan. Kemudian bapak menjemput untuk pulang ke rumah. Meski pada usia itu aku banyak memiliki foto namun hampir tak ada momen yang aku ingat di memori. Mungkin sekali lagi karena aku masih terlalu kecil.
Sepotong memori juga masih teringat saat menyeberang selat sunda di atas feri menuju ke sumatera. Memori lain dapat aku lacak saat sudah di Padang, sekolah di salah SD di sana. Yang paling berkesan adalah pernah pulang jalan kaki saat hujan karena semua angkot penuh. Memori lain yang berkesan adalah saat rumah kontrakan kami di Padang kebanjiran saat laut pasang. Aku juga ingat pernah sholat jumat berdua bapak ke mesjid di dekat rumah. Aku juga ingat pernah jatuh dari pagar rumah dan kepala bocor.
Memori lain adalah ketika pulang lagi ke Jonggol dan kami tinggal di gubuk di belakang rumah sekarang. Vici lahir, aku masuk ke SD Jonggol 1 selama satu minggu hingga akhirnya pindah ke Jakarta saat kelas 2 SD. Di kelas 2 SD inilah semua memori mulai cukup jelas teringat. Tentunya tidak sampai yang sedetail-detailnya. Beberapa yang teringat misalnya saat aku senang menangkap ikan sapu-sapu saat banjir. Pulang dari latihan karate dengan berlari kencang karena melewati kawasan kompleks yang sepi saat malam. Memori agustusan lomba membawa kelereng. Ingatan main perosotan di taman bermain dekat rumah jakarta. Ingatan pertama kali kemping ke cibubur sebelum kelas 4 SD. Naik truk terbuka. Sesampai tujuan peserta kemping SD Barunawati 1 heboh karena salah seorang siswa meminum minyak tanah dari jerigen yang disangkanya air. Dan banyak hal lain yang mulai aku ingat dengan cukup jelas.
Bagaimana dengan bunda? Kapankah kamu mulai mengingat? Semoga aku selalu akan bisa mengingatmu di hati dan saling menjaga selama ruh masih di dalam raga.
PS: I love you
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